Ten years after her mother’s death, Eliza Levinger never imagined she’d hear from her again. But then The Letter arrived.
Eliza’s world broke apart when she was sixteen and her mom died of cancer. Now, years later, she has rebuilt her life to include a director-of-development job at a nonprofit, a Manhattan apartment, and an easy-on-the-eyes bedroom buddy—just the kind of no-strings relationship she wants, even if it’s less than her best friend, Mo, thinks she deserves. But when Eliza’s dad dies unexpectedly, her beloved aunt Claude arrives at the shiva with a letter from her mom—to be opened only after her father’s death. Inside the letter? A bombshell.
Suddenly, all of Eliza’s relationships are upended. Her brother is angry, her stepmother is threatening to disinherit her, and Mo—who has always been her rock—doesn’t seem to understand what she’s going through. But as Eliza struggles to cope with the shocking news, she finds an unexpected ally—her brother’s best friend, Josh—her high school crush, whom she’s tried hard to forget. It’s not in Eliza’s nature to trust . . . but maybe it’s time for that to change. Perfect for fans of Emily Giffin, Katherine Center, and Jennifer Weiner, Dear Eliza explores the meaning of family, the complexities of grief, and the beauty in finding your way again.

 

Thanks to the author for this review copy!

Eliza Levinger’s life is quietly going along well, until her father’s sudden death. Both of her parents are gone now, and she is suffering through a paroxysm of grief. Eliza is still actively mourning Laura, her mother, who passed after a battle with cancer when Eliza was at the tender age of 16. Suddenly, the discovery of a letter from her deceased mother that was intended to be opened only after her father’s passing, sends her world into a tailspin. The revelation that she is not her father’s biological daughter forces Eliza to confront a lifetime of unspoken questions and shattered assumptions. She embarks on a journey full of discovery: learning more about her beloved mom, her biological father, and herself.

The novel explores the intricate dynamics of the Levinger family. Eliza’s brother, Scott, is consumed by anger and withdraws into himself, while her stepmother Carol, is portrayed as the thorn in Eliza’s side. Their reactions to the titular letter highlight the destructive power of family secrets.

As Eliza embarks on a journey to locate her “real” father, Ross Sawyer, she is forced to consider difficult questions about her identity, sense of belonging, and her place within the family. The author expertly describes the impact of genetic inheritance on one’s sense of self, and what the true definition of family really is.

Eliza’s complicated relationship with the only father she has ever known takes on a new dimension, as she starts to compare him with her yet-to-be-discovered biological parent. Her Aunt Claude, who was holding Laura’s letter, tries to support Eliza as best as she can.  I found Claude to be a delightful and steadying character. While the rest of Eliza’s family are rigid, Claude is a free thinker and stands firmly in Eliza’s corner.

Another character in her corner is Eliza’s BFF, Mo. She is a sounding board and therapist, urging Eliza to dismiss her fears and actively pursue Ross to get to know him. Mo is a bright and happy woman and serves as comic relief at times. Regardless of how Mo encourages Eliza to get out of her comfort zone, she is content to create her own ideas of who Ross is, as she is still unmoored by the revelation.

Eliza and her brother Scott, have a wonderfully supportive relationship….until the contents of the letter are revealed. Scott and his wife distance themselves from Eliza, confusing and hurting her. Further complicating things, Scott’s best friend Josh, reaches out to Eliza to offer help. Eliza has known Josh seemingly forever and is harboring some bewildering emotions about him. Eliza’s “love life” consists of a strikingly handsome but shallow boy toy. He is not supportive to Eliza at all and seems to think that sex is the answer to everything. Josh is the other side of the coin, challenging Eliza’s perspectives and helping her see the big picture.

Eliza is a unique and sympathetic character. Her pretty smile hides a hurting soul, a girl who is deeply scarred by the loss of her mother just when the bond between them is supposed to become stronger. She hides her heart deeply below her sleeve despite wishing for a meaningful relationship, and is a superstar at her job, a nonprofit called Nourish Our Youth. NOY (as it is colloquially called) was founded to pull kids out of poverty, dealing with food insecurity and education. The more you learn about Eliza, you will understand why this is the perfect job for her!

Most women have a little bit of Eliza inside them; multifaceted and strong, yet vulnerable and subject to self-doubt and panic attacks. The author has created in Eliza a figure that is effortless for the reader to love and cheer on, as she struggles through her grief and tries to rebuild her splintered world.

I would not characterize this book as a “rom-com”, as there are minimal light, silly moments. This is tailor-made for a book club discussion, as there are a lot of varying viewpoints with some family drama mixed in. I can visualize women of all ages chattering eagerly about their experience with DEAR ELIZA. I say “experience”, because this is a book that will make you think about how you would react if you were in Eliza’s shoes. Some books are made to be consumed (such as suspense or mysteries) and some books encourage interaction on another level. This is one of those books. Stein makes it effortless to have all the feels for Eliza, and to cheer her on through her emotional ups and downs.

The writing is never syrupy or sentimental despite the weighty themes. Instead, Stein strikes a balance between sorrow and hope, leaving readers with a sense of closure and the possibility of healing. The pacing of the novel is deliberate, allowing the emotional weight of the story to resonate with the reader long after the final page is turned. DEAR ELIZA is a beautifully written novel that demonstrates the enduring power of love, healing, and the possibility of new beginnings.

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If you enjoyed this book as much as I did, check out Andrea Stein’s breakout novel TYPECAST!  

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